吻手礼
kiss hand
吻颊礼
kiss face
碰鼻礼
touch nose
You are supposed to
shake hands
课程标准
能向别人介绍其他国家初次见面的方式,了解其他国家的餐桌文化。
知识与能力
通过词汇和文章的学习，能够介绍其他国家见面礼仪及国家的餐桌文化。
情感态度与价值观
了解更多国家的礼仪及风俗，同时希望养成良好的就餐习惯。
重点
词汇
shake bow wipe napkin stick chopstick manner behave fork full gradually compliment toast unfamiliar spoon dead-end
succeed subject military army soldier sacrifice
短语
be supposed to 应该
shake hands 握手
after all 毕竟
pick up 拾起
table manners 餐桌文化
be/ get used to 习惯于
cut up 切碎
at the end of 最后
get into trouble 使陷入困境
give up 放弃
语言目标
告诉应该怎样去做及Tell what you are supposed to do 。
难点
be supposed to do 的用法 ；
It is + adj 的用法；
used to do / be, get, become used to doing 的区别。
1a
bow
shake hands
kiss
Brazil
The United States
Japan
Korea
Mexico
What do people do when they meet for the first time?
Know your social etiquette and you'll impress everyone around you.
Social Etiquette
Social Etiquette
Learn to Mind Your Manners!
Answers
1.c 2. b 3. a
4. b 5. a
1a
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1b
1. c 2. b 3. a
4. b 5. a
1b
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Pair work
A: What are people in Brazil supposed
to do when they meet for the first
time?
B: They’re supposed to kiss.
eg.
1c
A: What are people in China supposed
to do when they meet for the first
time?
B: They’re supposed to shake hands.
一、 suppose的基本含义为认为，以为。
He supposed it was too late to change his mind.
他认为改变主意为时已晚。
I shall suppose him to be about fifty.
我认为他有50岁左右。
这个词常用被动结构be supposed to 意为被期望或要求应该（出于习俗的原因或职责的原因）
Is he supposed to clean the outside of the windows or only the inside?
他应该把窗户外面擦干净，还是只擦窗户里面就可以呢？
be supposed to
He is supposed to arrive on the five o’clock train.
他理应乘五点的火车到。
这个句型的否定结构为be not supposed to 常用
于口语中，意为“不被许可”“不应当”。
You are not supposed to do that.
你不应当做那种事情。
二、You should have asked what you were supposed to wear.
情态动词有时和动词的完成式构成谓语，表示“应当已经”，“想必已经”这类意思，作为一种虚拟语气的表达法。
I should have thought of that.
这一点我是应当想到的。（但没想到）
They shouldn’t have left so soon.
他们不应当走得这么早（但已经走了）
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2a
Maria, an exchange student from India, went to her American friend Dan’s place and had dinner there. Now listen to the tape for the mistakes Maria made there.
Maria’s mistakes
√Arrive late; ate the wrong food;
√greeted Paul’s mother the wrong way;
√wore the wrong clothes.
Listening and checking
2a
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2b
1.arrive at 7:00
2.come later.
3.shake hands
4.wear.
Listening again
2b
B: Well, it was OK, but I made some
mistakes. I was supposed to shake
hand with Paul’s mother, but I kissed
her.
Group work
2c
A: How was the dinner at Paul’s house
last night?
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3a
Reading and filling
3a
Pair work
A: What kinds of rules do they have
in Switzerland?
B: Well, they have strict rules.
A: Like that?
B: Well, your friend will be angry if
you are late for fifteen minutes.
3c
used to do / be, get, become used to doing 的区别。
1. used to表示“过去如此，现在不这样了”。后
面接动词原形。
He used to play basketball when he was young.
他年轻时常打篮球。
2. be used to 是“习惯于”某一客观事实或状态。
不强调动作，to是介词，后面接名词或动名
词。
如：I am used to the weather here.
我已经习惯这里的天气了。
3. get （或become）used to 指的是从不习惯到
习惯这一过程的转变，后面接名词或动名
词。
You will soon get used to the weather here.
你会习惯于这里的天气的。
In the end, you got used to doing hard work.
最终你会习惯艰苦工作。
used to do / be, get, become used to doing 的区别。
1a
How much do you know about table manners around world?
Mind your manners
In the United States, you’re not supposed to eat with your hands.
In Peru, you are not supposed to talk at the table.
3.In China, you’re not supposed to pick up your bowl to eat.
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F
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4. In Korea, the youngest person is supposed to start eating first.
5. In Brazil, you should wipe your mouth with your napkin every time you take a drink.
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2a
2a
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1.d 2.a 3.b 4. c
2b
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3a
Reading
1. It’s even better than I thought it would be.
它（指这次交流项目）甚至比我想象的还要
好。
2. They go out of their way to make me feel at
home.
go out of one’s way to do 是个词组，意为特
意，特地，想尽办法。
他们想尽一切办法，让我感觉像在家里一样。
3a
3.You’re not supposed to eat anything with
your hands except bread, not even fruit!
除了吃面包以外，你不应该用手吃任何
东西，甚至是水果 。
4. And you wouldn’t believe how quickly my
。 French has improved.
你不能相信我的法语进步得多快！
划线部分本来为感叹句，在本句中又成了宾语从句。
5. I have to say, I find it difficult to remember
everything, but I’m gradually getting used to
things and don’t find them so strange more.
我不得不说，我发现记得一切很难。但是
我渐渐地适应它们，而且觉得它们不再陌生。
I find it + adj to do sth. 我发现做什么事很
难
It is rude to stick your chopsticks into your food.
把你的筷子插入你的食物是非常粗鲁的。
It is helpful to eat more fruit and vegetable .
多吃水果和蔬菜是有益的。
It is + adj+ to do 的用法
a bit—a little on time—in time
quiz—exam at table—at the table
point at—point to—point out
reach—get to—arrive at/in
except—besides with—in—by
finally—at last—in the end type—kind
habit—custom particular—special—especial
used to—be used to
重点词汇
课堂小结
1 shake hands 握手
2 drop by one‘s home=drop in at+地点 拜访
3 after all 毕竟
4 pick up 捡起、拾起、开车接某人
5 make noise 发出令人不愉快的声音、制造噪音
6 table manners 餐桌礼仪
7 be\get used to sth/doing 习惯于sth/doing
8 learn by oneself 自学
9 be supposed to do =should do被期望做某事 应该做某事
10 greet sb (in a right /wrong way ) 问侯
11 shake hands (with sb) 和某人握手
12 different customs 不同的风俗
13 kiss sb (on the face/cheek/forehead) 亲吻脸/脸颊/前额
14 feel/be relaxed/nervous 觉得轻松 ，紧张
have relaxed/strict rules 有松/紧的规则
15 drop by 访问
visit sb 拜访
come over to
16 the land of sth /watches …王国
17 after all 毕竟
first of all 首先
18 pick up your bowl (of rice) 端起你的饭碗
19 wipe one's mouth with the napkin用纸巾插嘴
短语集锦
20 point at sb 指向
21 mind one's (table ) manners 注意…礼仪
(1)eat with hands 用手抓着吃
(2)talk at the table 在餐桌上讲话
(3)pick up one's bowl of rice 端起饭碗
(4)start eating first 先开始吃
(5)wipe one’s mouth with the napkin 用餐巾纸檫嘴
(6)make noise while eating 吃时发出声音
(7)stick chopsticks into the food 用筷子插进食物里
(8)point at sb with the chopsticks用筷子指向某人
(9)eat or drank while walking down the street
边走边喝
(10)put the hands in/on one's lap把手放在大腿上
(11)say you're full 说吃饱了
(12) sit down from the left side 从右手边坐下
23 be/get used to sb /doing sth 习惯于
be used to do sth 被使用做Sth
used to do sth 过去常常
24 eat sth with a fork/knife/spoon/chopsticks
用（餐具）吃
25 feel/be full/hungry/empty 感觉很饱/饿
be full of sth =be filled with sth 充满/装满…
26 put the hands in/on one's lap 把手放在大腿上
短语集锦
27 sth. occur (in sth) 发生
happen to sb 发生
28 give sb compliments 称赞sb
29 toast sb=make a toast to sb 向sb敬酒
30 be unfamiliar to sb/sth 熟悉
He looks familiar to me. 我对他熟悉
31 hold the spoon in the left/right hand
把…抓在左/右小手
32 Questions crowded my mind . 我脑袋里充满问题
be crowded with people 挤满了人
33take out the rubbish/junk/garbage/litter/trash
把垃圾拿出去
drop litter about 乱丢垃圾
34 seek sb/sth 寻找sb.\sth
I seek you = i c q 我找你
35 e-mail chat line 网上聊天热线
36 have online conversations with friends
和朋友上网聊天
37 type quickly /slowly 快速打字\很慢
38 form good habits 养成好习惯
39 combine sth to sth 把sth和sth结合
40 use punctuation marks 使用标点符号记号
短语集锦
41 show the emotion you are feeling
把你正感觉着的感情表现出来
42 e-mail sb /a friend (v ) 传送电子邮件给sb
send an e-mail to sb (n)
e-mail English 电子邮件英语
43 write riddles 写迷语
44 learn sth. by oneself 自学
teach oneself
teach +sb.+学科 教sb学科
45 at the proper/right time 在合适的时间
46 be pleased/happy/pleasant(物) = nice/pleasure
47 cut in line = jump in a queue 插队
wait in line = wait in a queue 排队等待
48 seat oneself = have a seat =sit down 就坐
49 arrive a bit / a little late 迟到一点点
50 be relaxed about sth. 对sth放松
51 make plans to do sth.=plan to do sth.
计划做sth
52 walk around 随意走, 四处走
53 as many friends as I can / possible尽可能多的朋友
54 be + 分钟 + late 迟到(多久)
55 get/be angry with sb. 对sb生气
get/be angry at sth 对某事生气
短语集锦
56 wear a fancy dress 穿一件舞会的裙子
57 make some mistakes 犯错
58 a disaster 一个灾难
59 wear the wrong clothes 穿错衣服
60 be excited about sth. 对sth很激动
61 leave for + 目的地 离开去sp
62 how to use chopsticks 怎样使用筷子
how to behave at the dinner table
怎样在餐桌上表现
63 be allowed to do sth. 被允许做sth
64 what's more 而且
65 thanks for 为….感谢
66 exchange program 交换生项目
67 no reason 没有理由
68 host family 房东家
69 be different from 不同于
70 find/feel it+adj.+to do sth. 发现\感觉做sth…
71 have a good school year 有一个好学年
72 older people 长辈
73 eat meals 吃饭
74 give compliments 称赞
75 make appointments 约会
短语集锦
76 give sb. lesson on sth. 给sb上关于…的课
77 be made in + 地点 由某地制造
be made of / from 由….制成
78 in a western restaurant 在一个西餐厅
79 eat with + 餐具 用….来吃
80 begin with 从…..开始
81 hold the spoon in one's left hand把汤匙放在左手边
82 get / be bored 觉得厌烦
83 can't stop doing sth. 忍不住做sth
84 in the traditional way 用传统的方法
85 make faces 做鬼脸
86 a left / right bracket 左\右括号
87 send a message to sb. on a mobile phone
用手机发短息给sb
88 save time 省时
89 written English 书面英语
短语集锦
be supposed to 句型；
It is + adj to do 的句型；
used to do/ used to doing 的用法。
知识要点及语法
重点句型
What are you supposed to do…?
You’re supposed to …
It’s rude to…
When were you supposed to arrive?
I was supposed to arrive at 7:00, but I arrived at 8:00.
You should have asked what you were supposed to wear.
1. Everyone is supposed ________ a seat belt in the car.
A. Wearing B. to wear C. to be worn

2.Your mother look a bit disappointed. You ________ have told her the truth.
A. should B. must C. can
课外练习
一. 单项选择
B
A
3. I find ________ difficult to remember
everything, though I’m still young.
A. that B. this C. it

4. The box is ________ heavy ________
I can’t lift it.
A. too, to B. so, that
C. very, that D. too, that
C
B
二.完形填空：
Manners（礼貌）are important to happy relations （关系）among people. No one 1 a person with bad manners. A 2 with good manners never laughs at people when they are in trouble. Instead, he 3 to help them. When he asks for something, he says “ 4 . ”And when he receives something, he 5 says “Thank you”. He does not interrupt（打扰） 6 people when they are talking. He does not talk loudly or laugh loudly 7 public. When he sneezes or spits（吐痰）, he uses a 8 . If you are late, you 9 make an apology （道歉）to the teacher either at the time 10 after class.
1. A. thinks B. likes C. hates D. loves
2. A. boy B. man C. person D. give
3. A. tries B. wants C. has D. enjoys
4. A. Give me B. Please C. Yes D. Hello
5. A. never B. sometime C. usually D. still
6. A. every B. some C. his D. other
7. A. on B. at C. of D. in
8. A. book B. cup C. handkerchief D. hand
9. A. should B. will C. could D. may
10. A. or B. nor C. and D. but
In western countries, especially in America, some social customs have lasted still today. For example, ladies firs t, that is to say, women in those countries are respected in many ways.
三.阅读理解
In the U.S. and Europe, you will see men usually open doors for women and women generally walk ahead of men into a room or a restaurant unless the man have to be ahead of the ladies to choose the table, to open the door of a car or to give other services. On the street, men almost walk or across the street on the side of the ladies which is closer to traffic, but if a man walks with two ladies, he should walk between them.
( ) 1. In this passage “customs” refers to _______.
A. what a group of people usually do
B. what people in western countries do
C. what people in eastern countries do
D. what people in united states do
( ) 2. When you address a group of people in
English, you will probably begin with
_______.
A. Men and women B. Women and men C. Gentlemen and ladies D. Ladies and
gentlemen
B
D
( ) 3. In which country people may think
it strange that men should open
doors for women?
A. England B. Italy
C. Japan D. Germany
C
( ) 4. Which of the following statements is not
true?
A. In Europe, a man generally follows a
woman when they enter a restaurant
together.
B. In America a man who walks ahead
of a women always gives services.
C. In the U.S., women almost always
walk closer to the running cars.
D. In the U.S. men should always walk
by the side of the ladies.
D
( ) 5. Which of the following statements best
expresses the main idea of this passage?
A. In western countries, some social customs
have lasted till today.
B. Women in western countries are
respected in many ways.
C. Men usually open doors for women in the
U.S. as well as in Europe.
D. Men show respect for women by giving
them good services.
A
各国社交礼仪常识
美国　　美国人在待人接物方面，具有下述四个主要特点：　　　　第一、随和友善，容易接近。　　　　第二、热情开朗，不拘小节。　　　　第三、城府不深，喜欢幽默。　　　　第四、自尊心强，好胜心重。　　
加拿大　　加拿大的基本国情是地广人稀。特殊的环境对加拿大人的待人接物有一定影响。一般而言，在交际应酬中，加拿大人最大的特点是既讲究礼貌，又无拘无束。加拿大国民的主体是由英法两国移民的后裔所构成的。一般而言，英裔加拿大人大多信奉基督教，讲英语。性格上相对保守内向一些。而法裔加拿大人则大都信奉天主教，讲法语，性格上显得较为开朗奔放。与加拿大人打交道要了解对方情况，然后再有所区别的加以对待。
各国社交礼仪常识
法国　　与英国人和德国人相比，法国人在待人接物上表现是大不相同的。主要有以下特点：　　 　　第一，爱好社交，善于交际。对于法国人来说社交是人生的重要内容，没有社交活动的生活是难以想象的。第二，诙谐幽默天性浪漫。他们在人际交往中大都爽朗热情。善于雄辩高谈阔论，好开玩笑，讨厌不爱讲话的人，对愁眉苦脸者难以接受。受传统文化的影响， 法国人不仅爱冒险，而且喜欢浪漫的经历。第三，渴求自由，纪律较差。在世界上法国人是最著名的“自由主义者”。“自由、 平等、博爱”不仅被法国宪法定为本国的国家箴言，而且在国徽上明文写出。 他们虽然讲究法制，但是一般纪律较差，不大喜欢集体行动，与法国人打交道，约会必须事先约定，并且准时赴约，但是也要对他们可能的姗姗来迟事先有所准备。第四，自尊心强，偏爱“国货”。法国的时装、美食和艺术是世人有口皆碑的，在此影响之下，法国人拥有极强的民族自尊心和民族自豪感，在他们看来，世间的一切都是法国最棒。与法国人交谈时，如能讲几句法语，一定会使对方热情有加。第五，骑士风度，尊重妇女。在人际交往中法国人所采取的礼节主要有握手礼、拥抱礼和吻面礼。
德国　　德国人在待人接物所表现出来的独特风格，往往会给人以深刻的印象。 　　　　第一，纪律严明，法制观念极强。 　　　　第二，讲究信誉，重视时间观念。 　　　　第三，极端自尊，非常尊重传统。 　　　　第四，待人热情，十分注重感情。 　　　　必须指出的是，德国人在人际交往中对礼节非常重视。与德国人握手时，有必要特别注意下述两点。一是握手时务必要坦然地注视对方，二是握手的时间宜稍长一些，晃动的次数宜稍多一些，握手时所用的力量宜稍大一些。重视称呼，是德国人在人际交往中的一个鲜明特点。对德国人称呼不当，通常会令对方大为不快。一般情况下，切勿直呼德国人的名字。称其全称，或仅称其姓，则大都可行。与德国人交谈时，切勿疏忽对“您”与“你”这两种人称代词的使用。对于熟人、朋友、同龄者，方可以“你”相称。在德国，称“您”表示尊重，称“你”则表示地位平等、关系密切。
各国社交礼仪常识
波兰　　在人际交往中，波兰人的举止优雅，语言文明，彬彬有礼，是世人有口皆碑的。同外人打交道时，波兰人对称呼极其重视。他们的习惯，是要尽可能地采用郑重其事一些的称呼。对于男士，波兰人言必称“潘”。对于妇女，他们则非要称之为“帕那”或“帕妮”不可。在社交场合问候他人时，波兰人肯定会对对方以“您”相称。他们假如与对方以“你”相称，则多半意味着双方关系十分密切，彼此相交已非一日。按照波兰人的习惯，自己在交际场合被介绍给他人之后，必须要主动同对方握手为礼，同时还要报上自己的姓名，不然即为失礼。在波兰，最常用的见面礼节有握手礼和拥抱礼。在波兰民间，吻手礼则十分通行。一般而言，吻手礼的行礼对象应为已婚妇女，行礼的最佳地点应为室内。在行礼时，男士宜双手捧起女士的手在其指尖或手背上象征性轻吻一下，假如吻出声响或吻到手腕之上，都是不合规范的。
各国社交礼仪常识
俄罗斯　　在人际交往中，俄罗斯人素来以热情、豪放、勇敢、耿直而著称于世。在交际场合，俄罗斯人惯于和初次会面的人行握手礼。但对于熟悉的人，尤其是在久别重逢时，他们则大多要与对方热情拥抱。在迎接贵宾之时，俄罗斯人通常会向对方献上“面包和盐”。这是给予对方的一种极高的礼遇，来宾必须对其欣然笑纳。在称呼方面，在正式场合，他们也采用“先生”、“小姐”、“夫人”之类的称呼。在俄罗斯，人们非常看重人的社会地位。因此对有职务、学衔、军衔的人，最好以其职务、学衔、军衔相称。依照俄罗斯民俗，在用姓名称呼俄罗斯人时，可按彼此之间的不同关系，具体采用不同的方法。只有与初次见面之人打交道时，或是在极为正规的场合，才有必要将俄罗斯人的姓名的三个部分连在一道称呼。
各国社交礼仪常识
墨西哥　　在墨西哥熟人见面时所采用的见面礼节，主要是拥抱礼与亲吻礼。在上流社会中，男士们往往还会温文而雅地向女士们行吻手礼。通常，他们最惯于使用的称呼是在交往对象的姓氏之前，加上“先生”、“小姐”或“夫人”之类的尊称。前去赴约时，墨西哥人一般都不习惯于准时到达约会地点。在通常情况下他们的露面总要比双方事先约定的时间晚上一刻钟到半个小时左右。在他们看来这是一种待人的礼貌。　　
阿根廷　　阿根廷人在日常交往中所采用的礼仪与欧美其他国家大体上是一致的，并以受西班牙影响为最。阿根廷人大都信奉天主教，所以一些宗教礼仪也经常见诸阿根廷人的日常生活。在交际中，普遍采取握手礼。在与交往对象相见时，阿根廷人认为与对方握手的次数是多多易善。在交际场合，对阿根廷人一般均可以“先生”“小姐”或“夫人” 相称。
各国社交礼仪常识
澳大利亚　　澳大利亚人见面习惯于握手，不过有些女子之间不握手，女友相逢时常亲吻对方的脸。澳大利亚人大都名在前，姓在后。称呼别人先说姓，接上先生，小姐或太太之类。熟人之间可称小名。

巴西 　　从民族性格来讲巴西人在待人接物上所表现出来的特点主要有二。一方面，巴西人喜欢直来直去，有什么就说什么。另一方面，巴西人在人际交往中大都活泼好动，幽默风趣，爱开玩笑。目前，巴西人在社交场合通常都以拥抱或者亲吻作为见面礼节。只有十分正式的活动中，他们才相互握手为礼。除此之外，巴西人还有一些独特的见面礼。其一，握拳礼。其二，贴面礼。其三，沐浴礼。
各国社交礼仪常识
埃及　　握手礼——禁忌是不要用左手 　　　　拥抱礼——力度适中 　　　　亲吻礼——根据交往对象不同分为： 　　　　吻面礼，一般用于亲友之间，尤其是女性之间。 　　　　吻手礼，向尊长表示谢意或是向恩人致谢时使用。 　　　　飞吻礼，多见于情侣之间。
南亚摇头礼　　在印度、巴基斯坦、孟加拉、尼泊尔、斯里兰卡等国，人们相互交往时，往往彬彬有礼地摇头。他们的表敬礼俗是：向左摇头则表示赞同、尊重或认可；点头则表示不同意。这恰恰与中国的"摇头不算点头算"相反。
各国社交礼仪常识